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What You Are Seeking

Updated: Jul 11, 2022

What you seek from me isn’t what I can give you.

What you seek from me you already have.

What you seek from me is inside yourself if you are willing to look.

What you seek from me is layered within you.

Waiting to be explored, discovered, loved, embraced…


What you seek from me is what you know is inside of you.

You just haven’t learnt how to connect to those parts of you yet.

What you seek from me is a feeling of safety, of belonging, of love.

You hold those parts of you already within you.

What you seek from me I can’t give you.

I can guide you.

I can cheer you on.

I can send you love and support.

I can walk the path alongside you.

I can reflect back to you the words and emotions you bring forth.

What you seek is yours to discover, and yours alone.

I am just the ripple that moves you along.

Until the time you begin to create your own ripples.

What you seek…

Is yourself.

Carla Crivaro is a trauma-informed and certified Sex, Love & Relationship Coach, she works with men and women internationally to reach their goals in delicious sex, profound love and authentic relationships. Carla helps men and women understand themselves and each other, sexually and relationally, in and out of the bedroom. You can reach her at


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