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Feel sexy, alive, confident and courageous
in or out of a relationship
What does that look like?

Our sexuality is at the very heart of who we are as human beings. Social, religious and familial conditioning can affect our ability to tap into full body pleasure and have authentic relationships with ourselves and each other.

We learn to self-abandon and put other peoples's needs first and feel resentment.

We project our own fears and woundings onto those around us holding them responsible for how we feel.

Now is the opportunity to move into a new reality:

  • One where you can lovingly accept all of the parts of you that show up

  • One that no longer takes another person's behaviour 'personally'

  • One where you feel the freedom to ask for what you want in and out of the bedroom

  • One where you are able to dive into the depths of intimacy and hold yourself in any discomfort that arises from the vulnerability of being fully seen

  • One where you learn your body's full capacity for pleasure

  • One where you embody your orgasmic, confident and vibrant self


If you are ready to access your sexy, vibrant self and feel confident in and out of a relationship start your journey by applying to work with me

If you know that sex could be ‘better’ and/or your relationship could be ‘better’ but you don’t know what ‘better’ means for you (!), have a go at my self-assessment form to see the areas of your sex, love and relationships could do with some tweaking.



Love, Relationship & Intimacy Coach

I started out as a sexually repressed, stay at home mother and wife with chronic anxiety, low self-worth and deep-rooted insecurities in all relationships from working to familial to romantic.


I went on to experience an 'awakening' which took me on a path of self-discovery. This awakening led me to explore non-monogamy with my then husband and experience a more embodied connection to myself and my sexuality. 

I have learnt to ask for what I want in relationships, state my boundaries and maintain them and I continue to learn and grow. I'm now in a monogamous 'living together apart' relationship with my partner in what is considered a 'Power Couple' relationship.

JC, mother and life coach

The exercises were a great framework for me to recognise beliefs I didn’t realise were getting in my way. If I didn’t get the insight using one tool, Carla had loads of other ways of helping me to access my inner wisdom. Carla is knowledgeable, compassionate, and open-minded. The perfect person to explore and challenge deeply help beliefs I had kept hidden, even from myself.

P, father and web designer

Carla allowed me deeper to sit with my 'negative' emotions and feel them rather than tuck them away and exchange them for something more light hearted. This has already changed certain issues I have been dealing with since the sessions together which has allowed me to 'feel more'. In return this has made deaing with certain situations easier for me.

JB, Relationship Coach
wife & mother

Carla makes you feel heard, seen and supported. She has a way of hearing what's not being said and reflecting it back in a way that provides much needed clarity. She's also brilliant at seeing the action steps you need to get from where you are to where you want to be and sharing them in a way that makes them easy to implement and follow. After working with Carla for only 10 weeks, hubby and I are communicating better (less stupid fights and more belly laughing) and connecting deeper (less loneliness and more physical intimacy) than we have in years. I just loved working with Carla! 




Workshops and retreats are held in the UK and abroad and are for previous and current clients, by invitation only or you will be asked to go through an interview process. This is to ensure you are the right fit for these intimate and life-transforming events.

As co-creator of The Sex Lectures I invite you to watch in-person or view online, myself and colleagues giving short talks on topics related to sex, intimacy, dating and relationships.

By subscribing to my newsletter you will be the first to know when applications are open for my own events and the next date and location for The Sex Lectures.


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Hit the button below to self-assess your boundaries; relationship to emotions and sex; your desires and many more questions. The form will be emailed out to you once you hit 'submit'.


Do you have a question that you would like to ask a certified and trauma-informed Sex, Love & Relationship Coach?

Looking for suggestions in reaching your desires in sex? Wondering how to access love for yourself or meet 'the one'? Are there problems in your current relationship?

Read more about this free opportunity.

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