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Date with Clarity & Confidence!
Some of the questions I most get asked about dating are:
“Why do men ghost or pull away after a few dates?”
“How do I know if he’s serious or just wasting my time?”
“I attract the same type over and over - what am I doing wrong?”
“How do I date without losing myself or overthinking everything?”
“How do I stop getting attached too quickly?”
“Where do I even meet emotionally available men?”
“Is it too much to say I want marriage early on?”
“Why do I keep picking men who can’t meet my needs?”
Modern day dating leaves you feeling confused, disheartened and oftentimes hopeless.
Whether you are dating for casual sex, polyamory or to meet your future husband and father to your children - navigating apps, advice and men is… exhausting
Dating was supposed to be exciting... not exhausting
But somehow, it’s become another thing on your to-do list. Another place where you're overthinking, doubting yourself and wondering, “Is it me?”
You're flailing in the apps - matching with men who give you the ick, ghost or clearly want totally different things.
You invest time and effort and they don’t show the same level of interest in return. You’re not even sure what to write on your profile anymore, because nothing seems to land. And it’s hard to stay hopeful when every conversation feels like a dead end.
You’re smart, self-aware, successful - but dating feels like a game you didn’t get the rules to. The corporate grind has you burnt out. Dating feels overwhelming.
You keep attracting the same type of man.
You keep shrinking your standards.
You keep wondering if there’s something about you that needs fixing.
And let’s be honest… it’s taking a toll on your confidence.
You’re not broken - you’re just not dating with clarity, intention and turn-on.
Let’s change that.
What changes inside this 10 week container...
Attachment - Module 1
Uncover why you’re drawn to certain people, why you chase or pull away and how to create secure connection.This isn’t any approach to attachment, we aren’t going to address your ‘style’ we will be going deeper and the specific patterns, the when, why and how.
How you’re feeling now:
You keep replaying dating dynamics - why you get attached too fast, lose interest suddenly or always seem to pick the emotionally unavailable ones.
How you’ll feel after this module:
You’ll understand your emotional wiring, know how to self-regulate and feel calm, confident and secure - no longer caught in anxious loops or avoidant shutdowns.
Mother & Father Wounds - Module 2
Discover how early family dynamics influence your attraction patterns, boundaries and communication.
How you’re feeling now:
You keep ending up in familiar pain - chasing approval, overgiving or feeling unseen.
How you’ll feel after this module:
You’ll recognise those patterns in yourself and others the moment they appear, reclaim your power and date as your adult self - clear, grounded and no longer seeking validation through love.
Past Relationship Residue - Module 3
We’ll clear energetic and emotional ties to old relationships through cord-cutting and release rituals.
How you’re feeling now:
You’re still thinking about your ex, comparing new people to the past or carrying emotional heaviness from what was.
How you’ll feel after this module:
You’ll feel lighter, free and emotionally open - with the past released and your heart ready to welcome new love.
Desires in Dating - Module 4
We explore what you truly want - emotionally, sexually, spiritually and how to own it unapologetically.
How you’re feeling now:
You settle for what’s available, avoid expressing your true desire, or aren’t fully clear on what you want.
How you’ll feel after this module:
You’ll date from clarity and power - magnetising partners who meet your energy and honour your full expression.
Self-Love & Self-Worth - Module 5
You’ll rebuild confidence, reconnect to your value and learn how to show up as your whole self in dating.
How you’re feeling now:
You’re questioning your worth, overthinking your value or losing yourself when you really like someone.
How you’ll feel after this module:
Grounded, radiant and in your power. You’ll know your worth so deeply that you naturally attract connection - instead of chasing it.
Online vs. Organic Dating - Module 6
Learn how to navigate both worlds consciously - with strategy, energy and authenticity.
How you’re feeling now:
You’re tired of dating apps but unsure how to meet people in real life.
How you’ll feel after this module:
You’ll have practical tools and mindset shifts for both - feeling confident, playful and in control wherever you meet people.
Dating Online - Module 7
Create a profile that truly reflects you, know what to look for and how to communicate with confidence.
How you’re feeling now:
You feel burnt out, unsure how to stand out or anxious about rejection.
How you’ll feel after this module:
Empowered, clear and magnetic - with practical tools to connect authentically and protect your energy online.
Dating Organically - Module 8
Learn to meet people in daily life - through openness, presence and new experiences.
How you’re feeling now:
You want to meet someone naturally but don’t know how to start or what to say.
How you’ll feel after this module:
Open, confident and curious - able to create real connections without pressure or performing.
Green Flags - Module 9
Shift from scanning for danger to recognising emotional safety and love. Learn to identify healthy communication, respect and reciprocity.
How you’re feeling now:
You’re always on alert for red flags, struggling to relax or trust.
How you’ll feel after this module:
Calm, safe and receptive. You’ll know what healthy love feels like and feel ready to receive it.
Using AI - Module 10
Discover how to use AI for self-awareness, communication practice and profile creation without losing your intuition.
How you’re feeling now:
You overthink what to say, get stuck analysing or need clarity on how to express boundaries or desire.
How you’ll feel after this module:
Confident, articulate and emotionally clear. You’ll use it as a conscious mirror for reflection not validation.
By the End of Dating 101
You’ll walk away feeling confident, secure, and magnetic knowing who you are, what you want and how to attract emotionally available love that meets you fully.
No confusion. No games. Just connection, clarity and power from the inside out.
Your hostess Carla Crivaro
Professionally speaking - I’m a certified and trauma-informed Sex, Love & Relationships Coach. I work with women, men and couples to come home to their erotic aliveness, to show up authentically and feel seen in their relationships - from bedroom to boardroom. I am a certified Sacred Sexuality for men coach and my studies in masculinity, my coaching work with men and my deep learning about men means I have helped countless women in dating and relationships make sense of some of their most confusing behaviours - and then how to respond to them!
Personally speaking - I have had a lot of fun and success in dating in getting clear around what I want and how to get it. I’m an avid learner and my own self-development, accountability and self-responsibility is wisdom from which I draw on personally to support and guide my community. I’ve been married, non-mongamous, met people on dating apps and in-person and have had fabulous relationships, terrible ones and made some great friends along the way.
What You Get in Dating with Clarity & Confidence
A 4-week group coaching container designed to get you unstuck and into aligned action.
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Weekly live coaching calls - we’re in this together. If you can’t make the calls, recordings available for 4 weeks after the container ends (value £2000)
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Private Facebook group - for real-time support, motivation and sharing your wins. (£500)
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Worksheets and scripts - no more guesswork. Prompts to help you stay focused and date with intention. (£500)
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Gentle truth-telling - I’ll lovingly call out your blind spots so you stop getting in your own way.
This is your space to get clear, build confidence, and date like the high-value woman you are.
Value: £3000 But...
You get this for £998
Those who join the waitlist and sign up within 48 hours of it going live pay £558