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What If...?

Updated: Jul 11, 2022

What if… for just a moment… surrendered?

What if you surrendered to your body’s wisdom?

What if you surrendered to your emotions and lovingly accepted them?

What if you just observed your thoughts and didn’t judge yourself for them?

What if you stopped trying to control from a place of fear?

What if you spoke to yourself in a way you speak to your best friend?

What if you saw beauty in the smallest of things?

What if you became your best cheerleader?

What if you embraced the fear of failure, not being enough and not being worthy, and said ‘it’s part of me but I won’t let it determine my path’?

What if you said ‘no’ if it didn’t feel right?

What if you fell in love with yourself?

What if you explored your guilt and shame, and loved it anyway?

What if you explored the world with the wonder of a young child?

What if you read each of these sentences again and imagined what your life would look like and how you would feel?

Carla Crivaro is a trauma-informed and certified Sex, Love & Relationship Coach, she works with men and women internationally to reach their goals in delicious sex, profound love and authentic relationships. Carla helps men and women understand themselves and each other, sexually and relationally, in and out of the bedroom. You can reach her at


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