Attachment Styles

Jan 5
6 min

When And How To Move On

It comes up reasonably frequently for clients in relationships to question whether or not to stay in the relationship. I get asked my...

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Carla Crivaro

Dec 22, 2022
4 min

The Fear Of Emotional Intimacy

I had always thought I had been chasing intimacy in my relationships. That intimacy was what I wanted. That intimacy was something that I...

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BDSM, Conscious Kink & My Inner-Dominatrix

Carla Crivaro

Dec 20, 2022
8 min

BDSM, Conscious Kink & My Inner-Dominatrix

In the summer of 2021 I was doing my own inner-child work and exploring what was holding me back in really stepping into my sexual power....

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Dear Midlife Podcast: Chasing Opposing Attachment Styles

Carla Crivaro

Nov 7, 2022
2 min

Dear Midlife Podcast: Chasing Opposing Attachment Styles

I was recently interviewed on the Dear Midlife Podcast about my work in supporting individuals improve their relationship, with a better...

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Carla Crivaro

Sep 29, 2022
1 min

Podcast: Bulletproofing Birds

Kristeen and I talked on her podcast Bulletproofing Birds about a range of topics applicable to women; The oppression of women's...

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Carla Crivaro

Jul 18, 2022
4 min

Why 'Red Flags' Aren't Helpful

I often see many people referring to behaviour in relationships and dating as a 'red flag'. What that means is that the person in...

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Creating Safety - Joy, Pleasure, Curiosity & Awe

Carla Crivaro

Jul 14, 2022
6 min

Creating Safety - Joy, Pleasure, Curiosity & Awe

How often do you take time out in your day to connect to the sensations of joy and pleasure? Do you notice the way coffee smells? When...

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Podcast: Uncover Patterns, Give Permission, Be The Mirror

Carla Crivaro

Jun 27, 2022
1 min

Podcast: Uncover Patterns, Give Permission, Be The Mirror

In this last episode of the 6th season of podcast Sublime Soul Surrender, I speak with Cosmos, MD (cos/they), a fellow VITA love, sex and...

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Carla Crivaro

Jun 12, 2022
7 min

Healing The Father Wound

I see it often on social media, in circles where women gather - the mocking of men, women frustrated by their ‘incapabilities’, laughing...

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Differences Between Men & Women In Sex, Love & Relationships

Carla Crivaro

Jun 10, 2022
4 min

Differences Between Men & Women In Sex, Love & Relationships

I thought I’d share insight into some of the things clients, workshop attendees, colleagues, friends and family share with me about their...

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Carla Crivaro

May 30, 2022
4 min

You're The Creator Of Your Life

There’s nothing more terrifying than realising we are the creators of the world we live in. That the repeated patterns we find ourselves...

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Carla Crivaro

May 3, 2022
1 min

Podcast: Chemistry, Love & Connection

As well as having my own private practice, I'm also on the team at PiSociety. PiSociety is a professional Matchmaking Agency in Devon,...

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Working Through Anxious Attachment Somatically

Carla Crivaro

Jan 18, 2022
1 min

Working Through Anxious Attachment Somatically

Anxious attachment is when you have an insecure attachment style in relationships. It often comes from a childhood where attention from a...

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'Narcissist' - Dating, Healing And Why I Don't Use The Term

Carla Crivaro

Dec 21, 2021
5 min

'Narcissist' - Dating, Healing And Why I Don't Use The Term

In my 20s when dating, I wasn’t treated in the best way. I had relationships with people who you would likely consider narcissists....

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How Your Desires In Relationship Are A Reflection Of Your Trauma Patterns

Carla Crivaro

Dec 15, 2021
4 min

How Your Desires In Relationship Are A Reflection Of Your Trauma Patterns

We tend to find ourselves repeating the same patterns in relationships. The person changes, but how it plays out is the same. I have...

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Are You Blocking The Possibility Of Love?

Carla Crivaro

Dec 3, 2021
4 min

Are You Blocking The Possibility Of Love?

Many people prevent themselves from heading into a relationship to protect themselves from pain. From hurt. They don’t want to be ‘let...

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Carla Crivaro

Dec 2, 2021
2 min

Being The Chooser, Not The Chosen

I had a date recently. The night before meeting, he messaged me to say he was off to the pub and I felt my heart sink. I thought to...

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Carla Crivaro

Sep 16, 2021
4 min

Birthday Blues? Not This Year!

It was my birthday this week! I got flowers and I’ll be having a night away in a hotel with my husband next month. All organised and...

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Carla Crivaro

Jun 21, 2021
4 min

Chasing Heightened States

The feeling of space in my chest Tingling permeating and a warm feeling expanding and opening The feeling of love is almost overwhelming...

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Carla Crivaro

Apr 16, 2021
7 min

Avoiding Intimacy? Avoidant Attachment

They’re upset again. The neediness is overwhelming. I need to get out of the situation. And escape. My mind is frozen, not knowing what...

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