I recently came across an article titled ‘ Rise And Grind: Does Morning Sex Make You A Better Employee?’ It’s  a  study covering 1,000 full-time American workers, showing that those who had sex before work reported significantly higher productivity, focus, motivation and emotional well-being that day. You can read the report here. At first glance, some might brush that off as 'just another productivity hack’. But what stands out to me, as someone who helps people heal their

In this provocative episode, Ralitza and Carla peel back the layers around sexuality, self-expression, and the invisible barriers that keep women from owning their sensual truth. From navigating AI censorship to unpacking personal stories of desire and identity, they dive into the raw, real and often uncomfortable territories of sexiness that most people never talk about. Carla introduces 10 irresistible flavours of SEXY - each an archetype that women cycle through naturally:

I’m going to say something here a little triggering to some - porn isn’t a problem. Now, I’m going to invite you into the nuance of this conversation. I invite you to leave your ‘all or nothing’, ‘black and white’ thinking at the door. Because what I have seen in my work is that everything is so much more complex, nuanced and multifaceted than what we allow at first glance. And so, I’m going to share here some of the complexities around porn that you might not have considered

In this juicy and soul-stirring episode of Authenticity Calling, I share with Ralitza my journey to finding my gift that I now share with the world, where I works with clients to reignite their sex lives and deepen their relationships, so they feel confident, desired and fully connected in every area of life, from the bedroom to the boardroom. I open up about my transformation from anxious wife and mother to an empowered woman leading with love, sovereignty and authenticity.

Get ready for an open, honest, and deeply entertaining conversation that will challenge the way you think about passion, connection and intimacy! In this episode of The Love Machine, James Preece welcomes me as we aren't afraid to get real about the orgasm gap, faking it, porn’s true impact on our love lives and the secrets to reigniting chemistry when life (and children!) get in the way. I dive straight into the facts that too many people avoid, sharing powerful insights on

Margaret came to me struggling with painful sex with her boyfriend, frequent UTIs and thrush infections and chronic anxiety, compounded by ongoing fatigue and ME flare-ups. During sex, the inside of her vagina would burn and she began to wonder if sex was simply 'not for her'. Past partners had often pushed themselves on her before she was ready, leaving her without tools to assert boundaries. Sex had always felt like it was for someone else, never for her. As a self-identifi

Over the last few years I have had so many women in their 40s and 50s (and now more recently 60s) come to me. They want to feel better about themselves. They’ve started the journey towards menopause (or crossing it) and the decrease in oestrogen means they are more focused on themselves. While oestrogen was higher they would ‘let slide’ the things that bothered them in the relationship that were gradually building. But the kids get older and with changes in hormones they ask

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