Podcast: Say It Sister - Bonobo Lessons For A Safer World
- Carla Crivaro

- 22 hours ago
- 2 min read
We ask what the world could look like if women organised power differently, using bonobo matriarchies as a surprising lens on violence, safety and social cohesion.
I joins Lucy Barkas and Karen Heras-Kelly from Say it Sister to talk...
Boundaries, reclaiming sensuality and building coalitions that make women safer and stronger in daily life.
Stepping away from constant news to reduce helplessness and rebuild agency
Creating change through individual empowerment and local ripple effects
Reframing “difficult” as a sign of boundaries and self-respect
Learning from bonobo matriarchy and female coalitions that stop aggression
How shame around women’s sexuality functions as social control
Distinguishing inner sensuality from sexualisation and the invasive male gaze
Responding to inappropriate attention by staying grounded and turning questions back
Workplace sisterhood as practical activism, including women backing younger colleagues
Building community through Carla’s Sister Sanctuary and in-person events
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Carla Crivaro is a trauma-informed and certified Sex, Love & Relationship Coach, she works with men and women internationally to reach their goals in delicious sex, profound love and authentic relationships. Carla helps men and women understand themselves and each other, sexually and relationally, in and out of the bedroom. You can reach her at hello@carlacrivaro.com.
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