Podcast: Dare To Be Different - Stop Chasing Sex, Start Building Intimacy
- Carla Crivaro

- Aug 11
- 1 min read
In this episode of Dare to Be Different with Men’s Leadership Coach, Craig White, I explain why men can find themselves wanting more sex just as their partners begin withdrawing from intimacy. The conversation explores sexual disconnection, emotional safety, male shame, performance pressure and the everyday behaviours that can either weaken or rebuild connection.
In this episode, I share:
-Why a mismatch in sexual desire often reflects a much wider loss of connection
-How mental load and control can create an unhelpful mother-and-son dynamic
-Why presence, honesty and emotional discipline help a woman feel safer
-How chasing orgasm and performance can pull both partners out of intimacy
-How listening, non-sexual touch, check-ins, play and clear boundaries can rebuild closeness
Carla Crivaro is a trauma-informed and certified Sex, Love & Relationship Coach, she works with men and women internationally to reach their goals in delicious sex, profound love and authentic relationships. Carla helps men and women understand themselves and each other, sexually and relationally, in and out of the bedroom. You can reach her at hello@carlacrivaro.com.




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