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Women, What Do You Want?

Updated: Jul 11, 2022

What do women want?

“If only he did XYZ I would be happier/feel better/love him more/*insert other emotion”

In a relationship we have a tendency to default on what the ‘other’ should be doing or isn’t doing.

Have you thought to consider, how by making changes to your behaviour, you can have a change on your partner’s?

Are you asking for help?

Are you allowing your partner to take more responsibility and accept that he will ‘get it wrong’ or ‘make mistakes’, and actually, that’s OK?

Are you communicating clearly and from a centred place what your needs are and working together on how they can be addressed? Or do you tend to assume ‘he should just know’?

New to this way of looking at things and would like to know more?... keep reading.

If you know all of this and read many of my blogs but find that you can’t seem to change this way of behaving, you have somatic blocks which are preventing you from moving forward.

Sensations arise in your body that tell you it ‘isn’t safe’ or that you ‘won’t be loved’ if you do things differently.

That is your body’s perception based on past experiences.

You can change your future experiences by rewiring your body’s current perception.

And this is the beauty of the coaching method I use. It isn’t just mindset - it’s getting to the very essence and heart of who we are to make the change.

Women, do you want the above? Share this blog to the man in your life to let him know what you want!

Carla Crivaro is a trauma-informed and certified Sex, Love & Relationship Coach, she works with men and women internationally to reach their goals in delicious sex, profound love and authentic relationships. Carla helps men and women understand themselves and each other, sexually and relationally, in and out of the bedroom. You can reach her at


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