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Podcast: Pleasure, Power & Fellatio

I was recently invited onto Ruan Willow's podcast Oh F*ck Yeah.

We talked about:

  • How men have a lot of pressure during sex.

  • How porn gets misused as education when it really is just entertainment.

  • The importance of talking about sex very early on in dating and relationships .

  • The misconception that men are unemotional and how men can feel and express feelings.

  • How women are taught to not talk about sex and men are taught not to feel. This messes up our relationships!

  • My blow job course for women and for women to connect to their inner slut.

  • My history of sexual shame and how I shed the shame and connected to my inner-slut.

  • Sex toy usage… and if women are afraid of this to examine why…

  • Penis massage, penis worship and flaccid cocks and how penis massage is a sensual journey for both partners that may end up in a sexual act, but may not…and to be okay with whatever happens.

  • We discussed ways to improve confidence.

Listen to the podcast here

Carla Crivaro is a trauma-informed and certified Sex, Love & Relationship Coach, she works with men and women internationally to reach their goals in delicious sex, profound love and authentic relationships. Carla helps men and women understand themselves and each other, sexually and relationally, in and out of the bedroom. You can reach her at

Like what I do and want to support my work? You can buy me a book (contribute to one!) here.

Learn more about The Queen Of Blowjobs course here

Learn how to give a penis massage and better communication around sex here at The Sacred Cock

You can listen to and read around this topic in the below articles and podcasts:

Genitals & Shame

Podcast: Quickies - The Queen Of Blowjobs

Podcast: Moms Talk Sex - Queen Of Blowjobs

"He Doesn't Think I'm Like That"

Erectile Dysfunction: A Blessing In Disguise

Podcast: What's Your Pleasure - Blowjobs: Work Or Play?

Who Wants To Explore More? Men? Women?

Why ‘Delicious’ Sex?

Slutty Activism Podcast: Oral Sex - Giving For Your Pleasure

BDSM, Conscious Kink & My Inner-Dominatrix

Women - Your Sexuality, Your Power


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