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The Sex Lectures - Men Are Not The Enemy

We can spend so much time looking outwards around us blaming others for the reality that we have actually created within.

Our conditioning can run deep. Layer on top of that our own maladaptive coping mechanisms means that how we see and interact with the person in front of us is often a reflection of all that baggage.

The question I ask is ‘Who are men, really?’

In this talk I take you on my personal journey from anti-man feminist to sex and relationship coach to men, and an avid advocate for men, especially in women’s spaces.

Carla Crivaro is a trauma-informed and certified Sex, Love & Relationship Coach, she works with men and women internationally to reach their goals in delicious sex, profound love and authentic relationships. Carla helps men and women understand themselves and each other, sexually and relationally, in and out of the bedroom. You can reach her at

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